Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Romantic Interludes

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I taught school for ten years and saw the heartache of my students with their parents going through divorce. Not to mention my friends and family. One day I was saying to myself how can I help people stay together? And I came up with this idea. It focuses on love and nurturing each other and having a positive outlook on your own relationship. Trying not to focus on the thoughts of breakups,cheating,jealousy,or any of the like. If you love someone tell them and show them don't just assume they already know. They might know-but it is always nice to hear it or be shown it again. It is kind of like a new puppy, you give it attention and lots of it but when it becomes a dog people tend to take that same puppy for granted. That puppy didn't turn into some other creature it is still the same puppy but it's how you changed your treatment of it that is different not the puppy itself. Relationships are very similar-it is still the same relationship (puppy love-new love) it is just your treatment of it that changed that is all. Relationships are really an everyday affair. Every day is new to us and so is every day in our relationships. Each day gives us a new beginning no matter how we have hurt our significant other knowingly or unknowingly, and we have the ability to change from that moment forward-if we just will. I am not a psychologist,relationship guru, or even trying to say I am an expert in the field. I just have a big heart and really care about people and their happiness and if I can help people I am certainly going to do my best. Yes I do love-love and am also in love with love. May you have happiness and joy whether your relationship just started or you are celebrating your 50th+ anniversary.


Truly